Vulnerable

Sometimes maybe its because I tend to listen to others and change my views or opinions based of others.
Even my personal views, I tend to change them based of what my closed ones say. Its true, some may argue that I don't have a say of my own-I'm fickle minded. I believe, its not that I am easily influenced, I tend to make myself look vulnerable. I tend to swallow and receive others opinions so easily letting my thoughts and decisions be influenced. yes, I may approach many of my closed ones just to get a broader perspective of something, but sometimes I make a mistake of basing of my decisions of a narrow opinion. Perhaps I should stick to the one person I trust most- my mom. In all matters, I've always approached her, and she knows whats best for me. She knows my limits, and everything about me. Even if its just her views and opinions, that matters most. Its her after all - the one who knows me best. Maybe I need time on my own. I need to draw a line between those who make my life stressful and those who 'add value ' to my life.
Its time I make a change.